Ellee Seymour

MCIPR, PRESS CONSULTANT, JOURNALIST, POLITICAL AND PR BLOGGER.

November 16th, 2008

Should Baby P’s mother be allowed to have more kids?

I was totally shaken to see how imagegorgeous Baby P looked before he became a punch bag. Don’t you just want to squeeze those chubby cheeks and bounce him on your lap, sing a nursery rhyme, clap hands and laugh together.

That’s what most mums would have done with this bonny boy. But not Baby P’s mum. Instead of enjoying this kind of happy childhood, the blond haired, blue-eyed toddler was brutally battered to death at his home – a place which should have been his place of safety.

It doesn’t matter to me who gets sacked for this – and I’m sure it won’t be long before Sharon Shoesmith, Haringey’s Director of image Children and Young People’s services, is deservedly given the boot.

Baby P, who was 17 months old, suffered more than 50 injuries while living with his mother, 27, her boyfriend,32, and their lodger Jason Owen, 36, despite being on the "at risk" register and receiving 60 visits from health and social workers. They will be jailed next month for allowing or causing the child’s death, and have been told they face a "significant term in prison".

The mother cannot presently be named for legal reasons, but I am hoping that she will be named and shamed by the judge when she is jailed.

To me, there is ONE person responsible for Baby P’s death. And that is Baby P’s mother who brought  him into the world and then denied him her love and protection while in her care, knowing he was helpless to speak out against the horrific atrocities inflicted on him.

This is the kind of woman she is: on August 3 2007 when an ambulance was called to her house, its crew found Baby P already stiff and blue in his blood-spattered cot. As they tried to rush him to hospital, the mother demanded they wait while she collected her cigarettes.

When toddlers fall and hurt themselves accidentally, their mum will gently kiss better their injured area. Not Baby P’s mum. She covered his deliberately inflicted wounds with chocolate to conceal the bruising.

As a Sun columnist said, "The RSPCA wouldn’t have visited this flat 60 times and done sod all."

A court bans people from keeping animals if they have caused them unnecessary suffering; like this woman banned for life by Margate magistrates last week for the pain and suffering she caused to 13 Bedlington terriers

Isn’t a child entitled to the same kind of protection as a dog?

November 16th, 2008

League tables and life

We are in the process of looking at secondary schools with James who takes his GCSEs next summer and then starts at sixth form college in Cambridge in September.

There are two schools in particular we are visiting. One isimage regarded as the creme-de-la-creme, and many parents of these kids wouldn’t dream of sending them to the other one down the road which is regarded as a poor relation.

However, that was where David went and did very, very well. In fact, he had the required grades to get into the top notch school, but chose not to. And James could have a place there if he wished as he is predicted varying A-C grades, and pupils need 5 Bs for admission.

However, James is concerned about reports of pressure which pupils there are said to be placed under to perform. I believe that high expectations should naturally be encouraged. But where does that end and extreme pressure take over for the sake of league table rankings?

I must admit I am disappointed with James’ opinion. I was hoping he would go to this highly acclaimed centre of excellence. But he doesn’t feel comfortable about it. He’s heard too many negative reports from other pupils who struggled there. Also, he’s not a natural academic and has many other interests in his life. Like David, he feels he can do just as well at the other school.

I have no choice but to respect his wishes. I want him to be happy and enjoy school life, wherever he chooses to go. And I think he will well. In fact, I know so because I have every faith in him as a rounded person.

To console me, James said: "Don’t worry mum. I’m confident and will always be able to talk myself into a job…"

I think that should be included on a league table somewhere too, don’t you?

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