Ellee Seymour

I can’t deny I was really disappointed when James gave up the stage for golf, which I wrote about here. But he has excelled in his new passion, winning a major tournament this weekend. His name will now be engraved on a roll of honour along with other champions at his prestigious golf club.

What was so special about this was that James entered the tournament as a 15 year old junior and it was an adults’ game which he won by five points. He beat much older and experienced players. He said it was his dream to get his name on the notice board within two or three years, yet he has achieved this within only a few months.

He had a handicap of 28, but played to 19, far exceeding his own expectations because of his dedicated practicing. He attends the big championship matches with his club and golfing friends around the country. He bumped into Bruce Forsyth at Wentworth and had a chat with him, telling him I was a fan of Strictly Come Dancing. He has the most fantastic golf clothes, mainly bought from Ebay with his own money, and takes so much pride in his appearance as a player. He also makes a little profit from selling golf equipment to school friends.

Who know where all this will lead. But, hey Tiger Woods, you had better watch out for the new boy on the block.

P.S. James is still acting, though not professionally and his next role is in a school production of The Mikado, which he wasn’t keen on, but was asked to join the cast. A couple of weeks ago he played Tybalt in Romeo and Juliet in Cambridge at a Shakespeare for Schools event which was excellent.

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As a mother whose two sons were both enthusiastic rugby players for several years, I admit there were times when I could not bear to watch the most brutal parts of the game on the touch line. This involved David and James being thrown horribly to the ground like a rag doll and players piling on top of them.

I would turn away as they became hidden under the bulk of burly bodies wrestling away on top of them. But they never complained. It was far worse for me. In fact, my boys tell me that footballers suffer worse injuries than rugby players, though I am not convinced. They have such a bravado attitude, living life optimistically to the full. And I wouldn’t want that to change.

My son James was a hooker, just like Daniel James, which means getting into the thick of a scrum. There were times when as a young player, he was carried off the pitch with stud marks on his face. I didn’t protest when he decided to give it up.

My heart goes out to the loving family who were forced to make an agonising choice which no parent ever wants to face themselves. They did what they considered was the most loving act, to end Daniel’s constant suffering and pain at his request in a Dignitas clinic following an horrific sporting injury which left him paralysed. It must have been devastating for his team mates too. It is always those left behind who suffer the most when loved ones take their lives.

I wonder whether today’s advances in medicine could have helped Daniel in some way, like they did Sonya Smith, 45, who was paralysed in a car accident. I wrote about it here.

It describes how she walked again after undergoing controversial embryonic stem cell treatment in India. Sonya flew to New Delhi to be treated by Dr Geeta Shroff, a doctor who runs a private hospital treating more than 300 patients with embryonic stem cells.

After two months of injections,  Sony said she regained bladder and bowel control, sensation in her thighs and feet, and leg muscle growth.

“It’s just amazing, the difference. Eighteen months in Australia with physiotherapy and I couldn’t move anything, nothing was happening. I’ve been here nine weeks and my toe’s moving."

Daniel was only 23. For him, there was  no light at the end of the tunnel and he had made suicide bids, begging his mum Julie to “set him free” after being told he would never walk again.

We will never know if this treatment could have helped Daniel too. However, our politicians now have the chance to help make it happen in the UK so that others like Daniel will have some hope.

On Wednesday, the controversial issue involving embryonic stem cell research is being voted on in the House of Commons. Although the Human Fertilisation and Embryology Bill is under threat by Catholic Labour MPs, support for it comes loud and clear from Gordon Brown following his personal tragic experiences.

In an article which he wrote, he hinted at his own experiences as the father of two children with serious diseases – his daughter Jennifer died at just 10 days old, while youngest son Fraser suffers from cystic fibrosis – and argued passionately for the advancement of scientific research.

This is what he wrote:

With adult stem cells already being used in treatments for conditions including leukaemia and heart disease, scientists are close to the breakthroughs that will allow embryonic stem cells to be used to treat a much wider range of conditions, especially those affecting the brain and nervous system.

Stem cell research therefore makes it possible to contemplate new and effective treatments and cures for diseases that have afflicted mankind over centuries – from Parkinson’s and Alzheimer’s to conditions such as cancer that affect every family.

Indeed, medical researchers believe that stem cell therapy has the potential to derive new knowledge to change dramatically the treatment of many other human afflictions, including spinal cord injuries and muscle damage.

Daniel’s parents will never know if treatment using stem cell research could have provided the glimmer of hope he felt he didn’t have and stopped their son from choosing death. But there is a chance that others in a similar situation could benefit.

UPDATE: Guys, don’t be squeamish. This article questions whether men’s testicles could provide an alternative source of stem cells to human embryos.

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