"Here’s a present for you mum!"

Those were David’s first words when he arrived home from uni for Christmas on Friday.

imageInstead of being given a lovely package to open, I was presented with a huge bag of dirty washing!

It made me smile. I know it sounds corny, but my best present had just walked through my front door. And I was thrilled because David is so happy. He passed his first exam and has a girlfriend who we hope to meet over the  festive break. I absorbed the happiness he was exuding. It was so infectious.

That kind of feeling is priceles. I would much rather have that rather than some of the ostentatious and obscene gifts which are on the market. What does it prove to anybody if you spend £12,400 on a diamond encrusted computer mouse for them? It shows that you’ve got more money than sense. I assume this kind of gift is for someone who already has a bank imagevault full of diamonds and it would just be an extra stocking filler.

And for those who really do have money to burn and want to splash out on some unique lingerie, would you really pay $122,000 on a diamond thong? How on earth would you wash it? You certainly couldn’t hang it on the washing line in case it got nicked!

I wonder what impact the credit crunch is having on Selfridge’s Wonder Room this year where hefty price tags are not for the faint hearted. It’s where you might find this kind of bling -if they haven’t sold out – limited edition Bluetooth headsets which are a snip at £6,250.

For thousands of newly redundant people, this year is not going to be a Merry Christmas. I’m thinking of my fellow journalists in Cambridge right now as a third of them in my former newsroom will hear in the next couple of days whether their jobs have been axed. Where will they find new jobs when the newspaper industry up and down the country has been doing laying off staff?  This is the most terrible, gut wrenching, worrying time for tens of thousands of jobless people who want to still give their kids a good Christmas.

This year, more than ever, we must remember our core values and families must support each other through the dark days ahead. It’s all we can do – and hope that the light at the end of the tunnel is not too far away.

I bet the kind of woman who has a diamond encrusted mobile phone bought for her doesn’t even have to wash a bag of dirty washing. Poor her….

Merry Christmas xxx